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I'm just eh on the fantasies. I think I'm too literal. But I'm totally behind your concept of spicing things up.


You know, I have a nurse's outfit and I haven't worn it in a long time. Maybe tonight's the night...

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Oh my gosh! Fantasizing about another man totally did the trick for me recently. I had never done that before. Felt guilty and like MammaLoves said above, I'm too literal. But then Eye Candy moved in next door to this SAHM and well...let's just say he gives me plenty to fantasize about. I'm working up the nerve to blog about the whole desperate housewife drama on my blog...stay tuned.


The mominatrix thinks costumes are fantastic. But she'd prefer just to have sex with Brad Pitt as opposed to pretending to.


One halloween (before we had kids), I dressed up like a flapper, and the huz was a sailor. We pulled out those costumes quite a few times, but actually, just him putting on the cute little sailor hat was enough for me.

Too bad the damn things don't fit either of us anymore.


One of the perks of being a lawman is... having props.


OMG! I have been married for 19 1/2 years and with the same man for 23 years. He was 19 and I was 18. And you know what? Our sex life is HOTTTT!!! Yes, we have those boring sessions because we both just want sex and we are too damn tired to work very hard at it. But when he looks at me from across a room of people, my knees still go weak. And, even after 3 babies, people comment on a regular basis that they can see how much he adores me when he watches me in a room. Even with gray hair and my larger behind, we still find each other hot enough to burn up the sheets!!!

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Must be nice, Dizzy. now shut up already. you're depressing the rest of us. just kidding, girl. good for you. i'm just jealous. :)

anyways, i love the office fantasy. i once went to my boyfriend's office during lunch wearing a very short black skirt, a teeny g-string, a pair of lace thigh highs and stilleto heels. he bent me over his desk and fucked me hard. it was hot as hell. that'll spice things up for sure.


I just recently stubbled upon your blog and have fell in love with it. You are awesome. I am not married and I don't have kids, but love reading what you have to say. You are very informative and have given me a lot of ideas that I want to try!

moosh in indy.

Dear Racy Red,
I only recently fell in love with a busty blonde Canadian while on a business trip to Chicago. My thoughts turn to her often and I need to know how to get over such impure thoughts of such a lusty woman.
Sincerely, Leave it to the treadmill.

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